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Translation : She sent texts while flying.
Happy Halloween ! Do you celebrate it ? What's your costume ? Kisses kitties ! ♥
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Have a good day loves !
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Because of tough years, I developped a quite bitter pessimism. And I am gonna tell you : it's hell ! Honestly, sometimes, we really are of no help for ourselves. But recently, I decided to take care of myself - and of my life by the way. If I gave up to fatality for any little problem, now I really try to put things in perspective, to not complain, and even to find the positive aspect of the situation. Yes, clearly, it is not the easiest thing to do. Even so, it's really liberating. We feel more in phase with ourself and we surprise ourself and get happy to be able to make that effort.
A problem will always be a problem. But we are able to decide if it wins totally against us, or if we are going to kick its butt !
I decided to kick its butt.
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Haha, I'm part of the "taking long" people ! :p What about you ? Have a nice Tuesday loves ! ♥
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Sometimes, our worst enemy, the only person to get in our way ... is ourself. Let's not let the majority's opinion, nor our fears stop us. Too bad if we were wrong, if it wasn't the right time, if we did not make it, if we did a mistake. As long as we believe in something, we need to give it our all.
If you have a dream, a desire, a project, considere everything you need to considere, but go for it.
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Haha, have to take it with humor of course, but personally, I love it ! ;)
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Pumba : Yeah. It's our motto!
Simba : What's a motto?
Timon : Nothing. What's a-motto with you ?"
Bad week ? Uncool day ? Sick ? Moment of stress, of annoyance, of getting mad ? There, I share my infallible medecine with you, it's free. Yes, I know, immediately, we feel better. Thank you Ryan. Thank you. ♥
Don't forget that Hakuna Matata, will solve all your problems ! ;)
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What individualizes us, is our signature, the only thing that distinguishes us, and by this, the only thing that makes us be. To be is way more important than to be like. So do not hesitate to be different, as long as it is you.
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It is not always easy to do but we can do everything in order to, and it will be better already. Be happy my loves. Decide to be. You deserve it. ♥
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Do I need to add anything ?
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This, is well said ! It's true that sometimes I see parents grant everything to their child(ren) and I think : "But, saying no is PART of education, it's this way that we become a responsible adult. What will this be like later on ?".
The "king-child", ("L'enfant-roi" in French, you can see it as the totally spoilt child to whom every single wish is granted and who thinks that this is how things are supposed to be.), honestly, it's not a present. And granting him everything is not doing him any good ! However, when we say no to our child, we have to explain why, without taking him for an idiot. My parents have always explain me why they couldn't buy me something, and when I was bought a present, my mother always told me : "Marion, you've been good/you worked well at school, so it's normal that we please you. It's giving-giving, if you work well and behave well, it is normal that we, in exchange, reward you."
Well, careful, my parents often gave me spontaneous gifts, it wasn't always linked to some kind of reason, but I knew that for each good action, I was rewarded. That didn't make me think "I will behave well, in order to get a present." though, I've never been interested, I think because of the fact that not every gift was linked to something. But that allowed me to realize work's value, since all labour/harsh work gets its pay and that it is normal to be rewarded for your work, and the other way around, it is normal to work hard for what we get.
Dialog is fundamental, explain to your children why you tell them yes or no, so things will be clear for them and they will be able to appropriate them to themselves. It also goes by saying : "Here, that makes me happy to offer you that.", because that way, they will know that a gift can be free and that offering can be as pleasing as receiving.
To educate, is not only saying yes or no. To educate, is to communicate.
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Bad week ? Uncool day ? Sick ? Moment of stress, of annoyance, of getting mad ? There, I share my infallible medecine with you, it's free. Yes, I know, immediately, we feel better. Thank you Ryan. Thank you. ♥
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So that was thaaat ! See mom, I'm creative, cre-a-ti-ve !
Haha, but yeah, I think that it's linked, since our mind is always flying away, tons if ideas blossom. The most important thing is to not let them escape ! ;)
Have a distracting and creative Wednesday loves !
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This is certainly the most beautiful thing that technology brought us : allowing us to have close to us, the person we need, when distance separates us.
Have a beautiful day kids. ♥
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Let me tell you that if this was my job, I would love Mondays ! ;) Good Monday to all of you wolfies ! ♥
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Okay, this my friends, is SO true ! Being able to represent perfectly on paper a thought, a feeling, a drawing, is way more complicated than it looks like. We've all felt that way already, right ? It's always so clear, simple, obvious in our mind, and then when it's about putting it on paper ... We struggle !
Haha, I hope that this day will be put under the sign of obviousness for you my friends ! Kisses. ♥
Haha, I hope that this day will be put under the sign of obviousness for you my friends ! Kisses. ♥
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I'll go further by saying : to respect any woman, your mother, your sister, the one you love, your friend, even a stranger, should be a priority. And vice versa. Any woman AND any man has the right to be respected. Anyway, to not respect someone, is not loving them. But on the opposite, to not love someone, does not mean that you can refrain from respecting the person. #HeForShe
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Ah no, I protest ! For me, it helps me to keep contact with my beloved subscribers, so it is not a waste of time, just what are you saying ?! ;)
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Translation from Japanese : Cute.
Hey, you there ! You are kawaï. ♥
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We could call this Thought : "The Nostalgic Moment" ! Diskettes, cassettes or VHS, cassettes audio ... So many pretty memories that have something more innocent and tender than downloads.
How many of us have enjoyed rewinding their VHS and other cassettes audio with a pencil or with their little finger ? How many of us lifted the little protector of the VHS' film, captivated by the idea that it was on this tiny black film that their cartoon or movie was present ? How many of us have never noticed how much they loved hearing the caracteristical sound of a VHS rewindind, than when it was gone ?
How many of us imagined being some super detective collecting proofs when they have to put a diskette in the central computer unit ?
Then certainly, it took some space, the cassette's film could easily get damaged and then we needed to buy it again, but yet, I never loved watching a movie or a cartoon, or listening to a music or an audio story, or save a work, as much as the time of those big diskettes and cassettes.
Years of the 90s, I won't forget you.
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Yeah ... The 2.0 generation makes sense now ... :')
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I find this reflexion very powerful. Anger blinds us and make us focus on what doesn't have any importance. Sadly, it is very difficult to control our quick temper, sometimes. There are angers non justified, and others that are. However, even if they are justifiable, they make us lose and reason all the same. Likewise, when someone talks under anger, it is hard for us not to be hurt, and yet we have to keep in mind that anger can breed words that can be then regretted.
Today is one of those days when everything seems to go wrong for me. Yet, I try to keep my head outside the water, (boiling, haha), and to keep in mind that I need to put things in perspective. It is not easy to do, but if we all got lost in anger, then there would be nothing left to save.
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To love, is to understand.
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And that's true ! Perfection doesn't make beauty. Be it the physical appearance, personality, intellectual capacities, perfection would be a condemnation. Because perfection is self-sufficient, it doesn't gain anything, and in this, it leads to lose any reason to be. Alone, it marginalize itself and break any comprehension and any exchange with others ; widespread, it standardizes and trivializes, sanitizing everything, making insipid life itself.
For having seen the "perfect" face, (which means the perfectly symmetrical face), with perfect proportions, it has nothing sexy in it. And for good reason : what's attracting is the light little flaw ! Because it is what gives personality, attitude. What matters, is not the physique, it's the charm. Looking closer, Ryan Gosling is not he most "beautiful" man. Which means that his physical appearance is not part of the ones considered as ideals. And yet, is it needed to recall how much he seduces ? (And firstly me, by the way, but that is another story !) Because there's something captivating about him, something magnetic. It is not that much in his physical appearance rather in his hypnotic gaze, in his tender and shy smile, in his way of being him, with his imperfections.
Of course, I am not saying that plastic beauty doesn't exist, however, that it is plural, and that it is not always answering the preconceived expectations. Now, yes, there are physical appearances for which we all more or less agree on saying that it is not what we are attracted to - and anyone who will deny it will only want to boast, we all have physical aspects that we don't like. However, even in a face with less harmonious features in our eyes, we can find a form of beauty. I'm sure that it already happened to you, to meet somoene with an atypical physical appearance, but which features seemed softer to you after having taken the time to know the person. As proof, the first time that I saw my ex-boyfriend, he was far away to correspond to my physical expectations ... But after having taken the time to know him, the magic of lûûûv having operated, he was the only man I saw. (Yes, we are dumb, blind and soppy (?) when we love, that's the way it is.)
Don't run after perfection because even if you reached it, it will never bring you what you hope from it. Physical ou personality's flaws, are vital elements which by characterizing us, give us a particuliar appeal.
A man or a woman who would only have a physical beauty would weary. A man or a woman who does not correspond to the idealized expectations but who's blooming and so shines with a particuliar halo, will seduce.
Someone who would have the "perfect" personality would then become predictable, and by this would lose all appeal. On top, her/his perfection would scare, because we would no longer find in it what makes us human. It is in our weaknesses that we learn. How somebody who never goes wrong could evaluate the preciosity of things ? How could they empathize with others if they would never feel pain, regret, shame ?
If we all were perfect, in the end wouldn't we act like robots ? If we acted and talked all the time in a perfect way, then where would be the surprise, the excitement, the apprehension, all those things that make us vibrate ? If we would all standardize ourselves to perfection, where would be our humanity ? Everything would be already planned and we would have nothing left to experiment. We would be tired of everything because how can we know the drunkenness of happiness, if we can not compare it to misfortune ? How to love and be loved, if we don't become aware of the importance and power of those feelings in their absence too ? How could we understand how precious it is to be good toward others, if at least once in our life, we have not experienced - in an active and/or passive way - what it is not to be ? (Which doesn't mean that the mistake has to be big, okay. We all make some, without having been a monster of nastiness, let's not forget it. We can all hurt without wanting to, it is the step of wanting to consciously that's really monstruous.)
Even intellectual perfection is not enviable. If we reached it, then we would no longer have this curiosity of discovering that drives us since everything would have been discovered. The pleasure and excitation of the challenge would be meant to disappear. The complementarity with other, (talented where we are not and vice versa), would be anihilated. Any goal, exchange, thirst of learning would have disappeared.
A very long tirade to tell you : cherish your imperfections, they are what make you unique. They are your charm, your strenght, what's driving you. They are your beauty.
Imperfectly yours,
Marion. ♥
For having seen the "perfect" face, (which means the perfectly symmetrical face), with perfect proportions, it has nothing sexy in it. And for good reason : what's attracting is the light little flaw ! Because it is what gives personality, attitude. What matters, is not the physique, it's the charm. Looking closer, Ryan Gosling is not he most "beautiful" man. Which means that his physical appearance is not part of the ones considered as ideals. And yet, is it needed to recall how much he seduces ? (And firstly me, by the way, but that is another story !) Because there's something captivating about him, something magnetic. It is not that much in his physical appearance rather in his hypnotic gaze, in his tender and shy smile, in his way of being him, with his imperfections.
Of course, I am not saying that plastic beauty doesn't exist, however, that it is plural, and that it is not always answering the preconceived expectations. Now, yes, there are physical appearances for which we all more or less agree on saying that it is not what we are attracted to - and anyone who will deny it will only want to boast, we all have physical aspects that we don't like. However, even in a face with less harmonious features in our eyes, we can find a form of beauty. I'm sure that it already happened to you, to meet somoene with an atypical physical appearance, but which features seemed softer to you after having taken the time to know the person. As proof, the first time that I saw my ex-boyfriend, he was far away to correspond to my physical expectations ... But after having taken the time to know him, the magic of lûûûv having operated, he was the only man I saw. (Yes, we are dumb, blind and soppy (?) when we love, that's the way it is.)
Don't run after perfection because even if you reached it, it will never bring you what you hope from it. Physical ou personality's flaws, are vital elements which by characterizing us, give us a particuliar appeal.
A man or a woman who would only have a physical beauty would weary. A man or a woman who does not correspond to the idealized expectations but who's blooming and so shines with a particuliar halo, will seduce.
Someone who would have the "perfect" personality would then become predictable, and by this would lose all appeal. On top, her/his perfection would scare, because we would no longer find in it what makes us human. It is in our weaknesses that we learn. How somebody who never goes wrong could evaluate the preciosity of things ? How could they empathize with others if they would never feel pain, regret, shame ?
If we all were perfect, in the end wouldn't we act like robots ? If we acted and talked all the time in a perfect way, then where would be the surprise, the excitement, the apprehension, all those things that make us vibrate ? If we would all standardize ourselves to perfection, where would be our humanity ? Everything would be already planned and we would have nothing left to experiment. We would be tired of everything because how can we know the drunkenness of happiness, if we can not compare it to misfortune ? How to love and be loved, if we don't become aware of the importance and power of those feelings in their absence too ? How could we understand how precious it is to be good toward others, if at least once in our life, we have not experienced - in an active and/or passive way - what it is not to be ? (Which doesn't mean that the mistake has to be big, okay. We all make some, without having been a monster of nastiness, let's not forget it. We can all hurt without wanting to, it is the step of wanting to consciously that's really monstruous.)
Even intellectual perfection is not enviable. If we reached it, then we would no longer have this curiosity of discovering that drives us since everything would have been discovered. The pleasure and excitation of the challenge would be meant to disappear. The complementarity with other, (talented where we are not and vice versa), would be anihilated. Any goal, exchange, thirst of learning would have disappeared.
A very long tirade to tell you : cherish your imperfections, they are what make you unique. They are your charm, your strenght, what's driving you. They are your beauty.
Imperfectly yours,
Marion. ♥
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Since I tell you that my passion, is your smile ! ;) And, smiling, makes life more beautiful for others and for us. We feel lighter, and everything seems to smile back at us. Sometimes it's a bit difficult, but it's always worth it. Look at yourself in the mirror and smile at you, because to collect smiles, you have to start by smiling at yourself. Smile at yourself and tell yourself that your positivity will be communicating. When someone smiles at us, it's a reflex, we smile in return. It's free, it doesn't make us lose anything, it's quick, but it's powerful. Something happens which in one second, links us to that person. It's a sudden reconcilliation, a one second intimity which deep inside us seems to lastes an eternity. We don't know who was the other, and yet, we shared something beautiful.
When you smile, you make life more beautiful. And yours, and ours. So smile a little smile for me !*
*Lyrics from the song Smile a little smile for me from The Flying Machine.
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